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YOU

I see your trust issues now, your paranoia. But you make me feel like I don't matter, that I don't exist. You make me feel like I'm not allowed to feel the way I do and you question my feelings constantly. You tell me that you think I'm just acting over here, you tell me I'm manipulative. How can I be manipulative when I actually feel the way I feel? I'm not trying to hide my tears from you to get something I want. What would it be that I want?
Yes, I do want something from you, but I'm not going to manipulate you to get it because it is impossible to do so. I want your actual love, your trust, your willingness to understand and listen. But I don't get that from you. You just tell me everything I do wrong and that I somehow twist things because YOU feel guilty. I'm not making you feel guilty, that's your own.

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